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“He’s still playing good, but he’s a different player.”
“He’s still playing good, but he’s a different player.”
The Economist article “The U-Bend of Life” presents a powerful insight that beautifully echoes the Tennis for Life philosophy—one centered on long-term growth, mental resilience, and finding joy in every stage of your tennis journey.
At the core of the article is the idea of a U-shaped life satisfaction curve. According to large-scale studies like the General Social Survey (USA), Eurobarometer (Europe), and the Gallup World Poll, people report high happiness in youth, a decline through midlife (with a low point around age 46), and then—surprisingly—a rise in happiness in older age.
Even as energy, sharpness, and appearance naturally decline, happiness tends to increase. Why? It’s not about having more money, fewer responsibilities, or grown-up kids. Researchers found that internal psychological shifts—like improved emotional regulation and conflict resolution—play the biggest role.
This mirrors what many seasoned tennis players discover over time. While younger players may rely on physical dominance and raw energy, experienced players learn to:
Play smarter, not just harder
Stay emotionally balanced under pressure
Maintain better focus and presence
Develop strong routines and rituals
These are the traits that often separate good players from great ones—especially later in life.
The article also highlights physical and mental benefits tied to happiness:
John Weinman (King’s College London) showed that happier people heal faster.
Sheldon Cohen (Carnegie Mellon) found they’re less likely to get sick.
Economists David Blanchflower and Andrew Oswald discovered that people exposed to something uplifting—like a funny video—boosted performance by 12% on mental tasks.
That kind of data supports what many coaches have known intuitively: a positive, resilient mindset enhances both performance and recovery.
So whether you’re in your 30s, 50s, or 70s, the takeaway is both hopeful and practical:
You have the power to keep improving—not just physically, but mentally and emotionally—and that’s what will keep your game strong.
From the baseline to the net, and from the early years to the golden ones, tennis is a lifelong pursuit. And if the U-bend holds true, the best part might be just around the corner.
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Looking for a fun and effective way to boost your tennis fitness? Grab a skip rope. Skipping isn’t just for recess — it’s one of the best ways junior players can build speed, stamina, and sharp footwork.
Skipping helps develop the key qualities every young tennis player needs:
Quick Feet – For faster reactions and direction changes
Better Balance and Rhythm – For smoother, more controlled movement
Stronger Legs – For explosive starts and quick recovery steps
More Stamina – To stay strong through long points and matches
The best part? All you need is a rope and a bit of space.
Note for older players: If you have knee issues or joint concerns, skip with care. Keep the jumps light and low, and speak with a coach or physio if you’re unsure about how to start safely.
Coach Tim reminded me recently how our U.S. training sessions always included skipping. One moment I’ll never forget — Kilmeny powering through 3,000 skips in just 15 minutes. That kind of focus and grit stays with you.
Kilmeny Waterman went on to become a professional tennis player and accomplished coach, with a career spanning the WTA Tour and collegiate coaching at the University of Kansas and University of Wyoming. She was named Big 12 and ITA Central Region Coach of the Year in 2002 and was inducted into the USTA Missouri Valley Hall of Fame in 2019.
Do 2–3 minutes of easy skipping before hitting the court. Mix in regular skips, side-to-side hops, or single-leg jumps.
Try this skipping set:
20 seconds two-foot skips
20 seconds side skips
20 seconds fast skipping
Rest 1 minute
Repeat 2–3 times
Set a timer for 1 minute. How many clean skips can you do? Try to beat your score each week!
Keep your skips low and light — just enough to clear the rope
Stay on the balls of your feet, not your heels
Spin the rope with your wrists, not your arms
Try skipping to music to help find your rhythm
Want it to stick? Keep your rope somewhere visible — by your tennis bag or near your shoes. Start with just 3 minutes a day. Over time, you’ll move faster, feel stronger, and stay sharper on court.
Skipping isn’t just a warm-up. It’s a simple, powerful tool for better tennis.
So grab your rope — and get skipping.
Fred Couples didn’t just play in the 2025 Masters — he embodied it. At 65, Freddie wasn’t chasing a green jacket. He was showing us something even more valuable: how to age with grace, adapt with purpose, and compete with joy.
As competitive tennis players walking our own aging arcs, Fred’s game offers more than nostalgia — it’s a masterclass in longevity, humility, and strategic evolution.
Fred’s bag features a modern twist: four hybrid clubs. Not a sign of fading strength — a sign of strategic wisdom.
🎾 Translation for tennis players?
Switch to a larger racquet head for more forgiveness. Use slice to control pace. Evolve from a power baseliner to a savvy all-court player.
Let go of outdated pride. Honor who you are now. Play the game that fits today’s version of you — not your 25-year-old ghost.
Fred’s pre-shot routine? Deliberate. Fluid. Calm.
In tennis, your prep step and crossover step are your rhythm — not rushed, but intentional. As aging players, quick explosive moves may diminish, but small, balanced, coordinated steps can still win points.
Footwork isn’t just about speed — it’s about efficiency and positioning.
Fred’s swing isn’t fast — it’s flawlessly balanced.
In tennis, balance is everything. It enables control without excess energy and enhances shot accuracy. It’s also your anchor during mental storms, helping avoid overreaching or unraveling in big moments.
Train it. Honor it. Build everything from it.
Fred’s rituals — lean on the club, light banter, relaxed swings — are more than quirks. They’re anchors.
Channel James Clear’s Atomic Habits:
Make warmups obvious (shoes by the door).
Make drills attractive (music, good vibes).
Make routines easy (short & frequent).
Make practices satisfying (celebrate tiny wins).
Don’t play harder. Play smarter.
Fred smiled at the crowd, kissed his hybrid club, and played with the course — not against it.
As we get older in tennis, this mindset matters more:
Compete, but enjoy it.
Play hard, but stay loose.
Play to win, but enjoy the rally.
Performance fades. Joy lasts.
Fred didn’t win the Masters — but he beat time, at least for a few rounds. And in doing so, reminded us that the sport isn’t about how hard you hit or how fast you move.
It’s about how well you play the hand you’re holding.
So here’s to:
Prep steps with purpose
Clear thoughts under pressure
Rituals that center us
And a love for this game that never fades
Just like Fred. 🎾
The article “Massage Can Help After a Workout, But Not for the Reason You Think” by Christie Aschwanden fits seamlessly into the Tennis for Life ethos. It presents recovery as a thoughtful, long-term practice—an essential part of athletic sustainability, not a quick fix.
Let’s explore how this message aligns with the core values of lifelong tennis performance and well-being.
The article dismantles a common misconception: massage doesn’t flush out lactic acid or significantly boost circulation. These myths aren’t grounded in scientific evidence.
Instead, Tennis for Life focuses on recovery strategies that are both evidence-based and sustainable. Massage, while offering modest physical benefits, plays a key role in stress relief, relaxation, and body awareness—all of which are essential for managing post-match fatigue or re-centering after tough competition.
Dr. Shona Halson, an expert in recovery science, emphasizes that the real power of massage lies in its ability to promote mental calm and emotional reset. In a sport like tennis—where focus, resilience, and emotional control are critical—this kind of recovery is not optional, it’s strategic.
When integrated with tools like breathwork, mindfulness, and visualization routines, massage becomes part of a high-performance mental toolkit.
As players age, their recovery strategies must evolve. Massage offers a low-impact method to aid relaxation, regulate the nervous system, and preserve mobility.
Think of it like BOSU training for balance—it’s not flashy, but it’s foundational. These routines build the durability needed to keep moving well, deep into your playing years.
Recovery isn’t just physical—it’s psychological. For juniors climbing the ranks or adults grinding through weekend matches, massage can serve as an emotional release valve.
As Dr. Halson puts it, massage creates space to “debrief and unload.” That clarity can be the difference between a downward spiral and a reset that prepares you for the next match.
Massage may not drastically reduce soreness or enhance muscle repair, but it plays an undeniable role in how you feel, how you focus, and how long you stay in the game.
For athletes committed to Tennis for Life, it’s a recovery strategy worth prioritizing.
As the years add up—or after decades of competitive play—our bodies start to speak up.
The shoulders, in particular, often bear the brunt of wear and tear.
That classic high-toss, overhead serve? It can begin to feel more like a liability than a weapon.
But here’s the good news: you don’t have to give up on serving effectively.
The slice serve offers a smart, efficient, and body-friendly alternative that delivers results—even as mobility declines.
The slice serve is a long-term ally.
It reduces physical strain by minimizing the need for full shoulder elevation and using a lower toss. Instead of driving upward, it shifts the workload to torso rotation and edge control.
Rather than attacking the ball from above, you glide across the outside, producing sidespin that curves wide or jams your opponent.
The result?
A serve that’s easier on your joints—and tougher for your opponent to read and return.
To make the slice serve a go-to weapon, dial in these fundamentals:
Use a continental grip
Toss the ball slightly to your dominant side and just in front
Lead the swing with the racket edge around the 3 o’clock position
Brush across the ball from right to left (for right-handers)
Let your follow-through wrap across your body naturally
This lateral motion not only reduces shoulder stress, but it also creates a low, skidding bounce that’s particularly effective:
Out wide on the deuce side
Into the body on the ad side
The slice serve isn’t just about physical relief—it’s a tactical upgrade.
It sets up first-strike opportunities, disrupts rhythm, and gives you control—without needing raw power or extensive shoulder mobility.
This is the heart of high-percentage tennis:
Precision over power. Efficiency over strain.
As your game evolves, the slice serve helps you stay sharp, strategic, and sustainable—for many more matches to come.
After reading David Brooks’ New York Times essay, “A Surprising Route to the Best Life Possible,” I found myself reflecting on my own tennis journey.
Brooks tells the story of Haruki Murakami’s unexpected shift from jazz club owner to novelist and marathon runner — a transformation sparked by a quiet moment of intuition that led to a life of discipline, endurance, and personal evolution.
It made me realize how similar my own path has been.
What began as a simple curiosity — learning how to hit the ball cleanly, how to rally, how to win points — slowly evolved into something much deeper. That quiet, internal pull to improve, to master the game, and to better understand myself through the process has been the real reward.
Brooks’ reflections helped me see that my tennis path has never been just about competition — it’s been about answering a calling, one driven by wonder, shaped by effort, and sustained by a love for the journey itself.
Every tennis journey begins with a spark — a moment of enchantment. Maybe it was the thrill of your first clean winner, or the peace of hitting balls alone against the back fence. That moment didn’t just hook you to a sport; it whispered, this could be your path. That’s the kind of moment Brooks describes — not dramatic, but defining.
We don’t train because it’s comfortable. We train because it calls us toward growth. Tennis asks for your time, your focus, your heart — and it gives back depth, discipline, and resilience. Every tough session, every emotional loss, every comeback is part of the process of becoming who we’re meant to be.
As Brooks puts it, “People choose pain for meaning.” We choose the hard road, not because we’re masochists, but because we believe in what it leads to.
Tennis reveals who you are under pressure. It surfaces habits, emotions, blind spots — and invites you to evolve. One moment, you’re squeezing a ball to calm nerves before a serve. The next, you’re re-learning footwork to improve efficiency. And over time, you’re not just building skills — you’re shaping character.
This is the Tennis 4 Life ethos: use the game to grow the person.
Winning matches is nice. Winning championships is great. But those moments — thrilling as they are — are fleeting. The trophy gathers dust, the high fades, and the scoreboard resets. What lasts isn’t the result; it’s who you became in the process.
The deeper transformation happens when tennis becomes part of your identity. When it’s no longer just about chasing outcomes, but about becoming someone who lives the values of the game: discipline, resilience, courage, and presence. As James Clear says, we become what we habitually do. When you train with intention, focus under pressure, and lead with integrity — you’re not just playing tennis. You’re rehearsing who you want to be.
Each practice, each tough match, each setback overcome is not just a step toward your tennis goals — it’s a brick in the foundation of your character. And over time, you realize the pursuit was never about the destination. It was about becoming the kind of person who shows up fully, keeps growing, and plays with purpose — on and off the court.
For us, leisure isn’t passive — it’s purposeful. It’s the quiet rhythm of hitting serves on an empty court. The joy of refining a movement pattern until it flows. The deep satisfaction of a hard-fought match, win or lose.
Tennis becomes a moving meditation — a daily ritual that brings structure, clarity, and passion to our lives.
We don’t expect to “arrive.” Like Murakami’s endless marathons, tennis is a lifelong pursuit. We chase better versions of ourselves, knowing we’ll never fully catch them — and that’s the point. The process is the prize. The struggle is the gift.
In a world full of drift, tennis gives us direction. It invites us to build habits, seek feedback, stay grounded. It anchors our days and expands our potential. And most of all, it transforms us.
Not just into better players.
But into better people.
If you love tennis enough to sweat for it, suffer for it, and come back again and again — not in spite of the difficulty but because of it — then you’re already living the Tennis 4 Life journey.
Let the court be your teacher. Let the game be your guide. And let the pursuit continue — not toward perfection, but toward the best version of yourself.
In Good to Go: What the Athlete in All of Us Can Learn from the Strange Science of Recovery, science journalist Christie Aschwanden explores the fast-growing world of athletic recovery. From cryotherapy chambers and infrared saunas to foam rollers and wearable tech, the book examines what actually works—and what’s mostly hype.
Aschwanden, a former elite endurance athlete and seasoned science writer, investigates the evidence (or lack of it) behind today’s most popular recovery trends. Her tone is skeptical but grounded, offering a refreshingly honest look at a topic often driven by marketing.
Her core message: Recovery is essential—but much of what we believe about it isn’t backed by science.
Key Takeaways from Good to Go
1. Recovery is Essential—but Often Misunderstood
Recovery plays a key role in how our bodies adapt to stress, rebuild tissue, and improve performance. But many widely used recovery methods—like compression gear, cold plunges, or massage guns—lack strong scientific support. The marketing often moves faster than the research.
2. The Placebo Effect is Real and Powerful
Many recovery techniques seem to work because athletes believe they work. That belief alone can reduce the perception of soreness, improve mood, and enhance recovery. The mind is a powerful part of the recovery process.
3. Sleep is the Best Recovery Tool We Have
Science consistently shows that sleep is the most effective form of recovery. It supports muscle repair, hormonal balance, cognitive function, and immune health. No device or supplement compares to a solid night’s rest.
4. Food and Fluids: Keep It Simple
You don’t need expensive supplements or branded drinks. Balanced meals with protein, carbs, and hydration are more than enough. Aschwanden urges readers to skip the fads and stick with the basics: eat well and drink water.
5. More Isn’t Always Better
In today’s performance-driven culture, athletes often push too hard. One of the most overlooked aspects of recovery is simple rest. Taking a day off, or even doing less, can lead to better long-term results.
6. The Science is Still Catching Up
Trendy tools and protocols often go mainstream before being properly studied. Aschwanden advises a healthy dose of skepticism and encourages athletes to ask critical questions. If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is.
7. Recovery is Personal
What helps one person recover might not help another. Rituals and routines—even those with limited scientific backing—can still be meaningful. If something makes you feel better, it might be worth doing, even if the mechanism isn’t fully understood.
Wrap:
Good to Go is a thoughtful, well-researched, and sometimes funny look at how we think about recovery. It’s not just for elite athletes—it’s for anyone who trains, competes, or simply wants to feel better after exercise.
The takeaway? Recovery matters. But it doesn’t have to be expensive, extreme, or backed by influencers.
Sometimes, the most effective tools are also the simplest: rest, sleep, good food, and paying attention to how you feel.
Passing and shooting are essential skills in handball, directly influencing a team’s success in competitive play. However, observations from the 2023 Pre-Province Championship revealed that deficiencies in these techniques often led to poor performance and missed scoring opportunities.
To address this issue, the research paper “How Does Medicine Ball Pull-Over Pass and Resistance Band Training Affect Passing and Shooting Ability? A Systematic Review on the Sport of Handball” examines the effectiveness of two training methods:
Through a systematic review of experimental and quasi-experimental studies, the paper explored how these methods improve accuracy, strength, and coordination in handball athletes.
The findings from this research extend beyond handball, offering valuable insights for tennis players who rely on precision, power, and stability in their movements.
Tennis players rely heavily on core strength for powerful serves, controlled groundstrokes, and overall balance.
Medicine ball exercises are excellent for building explosive movements and coordination, similar to their role in improving passing and shooting in handball.
A well-rounded tennis training program should integrate both resistance band and medicine ball exercises to improve power, stability, and coordination.
The research findings from handball training are highly applicable to tennis.
By implementing both training methods strategically and consistently, tennis players can enhance stroke precision, shot consistency, and overall athletic performance on court.
Many tennis players experience stiffness, limited rotation, or back pain that affects their ability to generate power and move efficiently on the court. A lack of mobility in the thoracic spine (upper back) is often the root cause, leading to injuries, restricted shot power, and poor posture.
When the thoracic spine lacks flexibility, movements like serving, hitting forehands, and reaching for shots become less efficient and more injury-prone. By incorporating targeted mobility exercises, you can increase your range of motion, reduce stiffness, and enhance your overall tennis performance.
If you spend long hours sitting, your glute muscles can become weak and stop activating properly.
This condition, known as Gluteal Amnesia or Dead Butt Syndrome (DBS), can lead to:
✔ Lower back pain
✔ Knee pain & joint stress
✔ Reduced mobility & slower first step
✔ Hamstring tightness & frequent strains
For tennis players, inactive glutes mean slower movement, poor balance, and less power in shots.
Your glutes stabilize your hips, provide explosive power, and improve balance. When they aren’t working efficiently:
A weak foundation increases the risk of injury and reduces overall performance on the court.
If you experience these symptoms, your glutes may not be activating properly.
To wake up your glutes, perform these simple exercises:
🔹 Tip: Stand up every 30-50 minutes to reactivate your glutes and prevent stiffness.
To reinforce glute activation in movement, add these drills to your warm-up:
Stronger glutes mean faster movement, better power transfer, and reduced injury risk. Add these to your workout routine:
Tennis is all about movement—whether you’re sprinting for a drop shot, loading up for a powerful serve, or changing directions in a baseline rally. But did you know your hip mobility could be holding you back?
If your hips are tight or weak, other muscles will compensate, leading to:
✅ Muscle imbalances
✅ Pain and stiffness
✅ Overuse injuries from your lower back down to your ankles
Poor hip mobility makes it harder to maintain balance, react quickly, and generate power in your shots.
If your movement feels restricted, here’s what could be causing it:
✅ Sitting too much – Long hours in a chair shut down your glutes, overwork your hip flexors, and leave your lower back stiff.
✅ Poor standing posture – If you favor one leg more than the other, you could be unknowingly overloading your joints.
✅ Lack of dynamic movement – Static stretching isn’t enough! You need active mobility drills and strength training to unlock full range of motion.
A five-minute daily routine can improve hip mobility, reduce injury risk, and enhance footwork. Try these simple yet powerful exercises:
🔥 1. Forward & Backward Leg Swings – Loosen up your hip flexors & hamstrings before practice.
🔥 2. Seated Internal Rotations – Improve rotational mobility for more fluid groundstrokes.
🔥 3. Hip Controlled Articular Rotations (CARs) – Boost range of motion for explosive movement.
🔥 4. Side Planks with Hip Abduction – Strengthen abductors for better lateral stability.
🔥 5. Single-Leg Squats & Reverse Lunges – Build strength and balance for sudden directional changes.
Mobility training isn’t just about avoiding injuries—it’s about moving better on court. Combine these mobility exercises with footwork drills like the crossover step to improve:
✔️ Speed
✔️ Balance
✔️ Reaction time
💡 Pro Tip: Check the soles of your shoes. If one side is more worn out, you’re favoring one leg, which means your hips are imbalanced!
🎯 Start small, stay consistent. Just five minutes a day can transform your movement, prevent injuries, and give you the edge over your opponents.
Tennis is evolving, and nowhere is this more evident than in the rise of the “first strike banger” mentality. This approach, characterized by attempting to end points with an explosive winner as early as possible, has gained traction among junior players and coaches.
While it sounds exciting—big serves, massive forehands, and instant rewards—the reality is far less glamorous. The high error rate of this style is causing many young players to struggle with confidence, consistency, and long-term development. For some, it’s even driving them to quit the sport altogether.
While this approach works for elite players like Jannik Sinner or Carlos Alcaraz, who possess exceptional footwork, timing, and control, it often backfires at the junior level. The execution simply isn’t there yet. When young players lack the consistency, footwork, and balance to support their high-risk shots, the result is an avalanche of unforced errors.
In tennis, Bang and Boom describe two distinct styles of shot execution, each with unique biomechanics and tactical implications:
🚀 A Bang-style shot is produced by a very fast arm swing with minimal core involvement, resulting in a fast but light ball.
❌ Relies heavily on arm speed instead of full-body mechanics.
❌ Lacks full-body weight transfer, reducing shot penetration.
❌ Produces a fast-paced but less effective shot that lacks heaviness.
❌ Can be easily absorbed or redirected by the opponent.
❌ Leads to inconsistent timing and increased unforced errors.
🎯 A Boom-style shot is generated through core weight transfer, where energy flows from the legs and torso into the stroke, creating a heavier, more penetrating ball.
✅ Engages the entire kinetic chain (legs → core → shoulders → arms).
✅ Results in a deep, high-bouncing, and more difficult-to-return ball.
✅ More consistent under pressure because it relies on stability and balance rather than sheer speed.
✅ Applies sustained pressure rather than relying solely on outright winners.
While Bang-style players might hit flashy winners, their shots lack the necessary weight to consistently trouble strong opponents. The lack of proper weight transfer means their fast shots often sit up for easy counters.
In contrast, players who develop a Boom-style game can:
✅ Hit through opponents, making it harder for them to absorb pace.
✅ Generate effortless power, reducing fatigue over long matches.
✅ Control depth and spin, reducing unforced errors.
A heavy ball with depth forces opponents to defend, rather than counter punch. It also allows players to control the rally without feeling rushed to end points too soon. Sinner is a master at this!
The goal isn’t to take the aggression out of the game but rather to teach players how to use their power effectively. By shifting focus from reckless hitting to strategic shot-making, we can ensure that players stay:
🎾 Engaged
💪 Competitive
🩺 Injury-free for years to come